tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post7315212680561696020..comments2023-05-02T06:03:10.277-04:00Comments on Krista's Heart: Capable Princess...Krishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12991116408907161409noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post-44229463539238726322009-05-12T22:43:00.000-04:002009-05-12T22:43:00.000-04:00AMEN SISTER!!!AMEN SISTER!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post-65224632043015643462009-05-11T14:28:00.000-04:002009-05-11T14:28:00.000-04:00(sorry for deleted post, I posted this in a hurry ...(sorry for deleted post, I posted this in a hurry while juggling too many things at once and it came out with horrible grammar)<br /><br />Hi Krista, I realize I don't know you that well, but I followed the blog link from your facebook page, and wow, you're a lot deeper than I thought. I really liked your blog from last Thursday, although I haven't read any before that.<br /><br />Anyhow, I felt I should comment on this current one.<br /><br />For guys, it's not that we're attracted to the high maintenance, snobby princess type, however the helplessness part is a factor. It's not that we want someone who can't do anything for themselves -- far from it. It's just that if a woman is too savvy and independent, then there's no security for us as guys; we like women to be at least a little dependent so we can feel needed and manly. <br /><br />And like you said, women seem to prefer the man do the leading as well, at least that's what they say, I've never actually met a woman who's actions lined up with that though. Women say they need a confident man they can follow, but then they put the guy in second place to other things - ranging from necessary and normal things like work and pets, to destructive things like drugs and intimate things like sexual behavior. As innocent as this can be(depending on circumstances), it essentially tells the guy he's not good enough in a particular area of a relationship, and when he's second place in too many areas, or maybe specific areas, it eats away at his confidence and subsequently his ability to lead. I could go on about misconceptions about confidence, but I fear I might be getting off-topic. <br /><br />Then again, like you, I'm also as single as they come, so I probably still have things to figure out.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08093256392122325344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post-90943805383184472712009-05-11T11:11:00.000-04:002009-05-11T11:11:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08093256392122325344noreply@blogger.com