tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post502587802892838460..comments2023-05-02T06:03:10.277-04:00Comments on Krista's Heart: The Fear That Grips...Krishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12991116408907161409noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post-2721496599703734982009-05-29T14:28:56.764-04:002009-05-29T14:28:56.764-04:00No worries I've been clear about my wishes.
In VA...No worries I've been clear about my wishes.<br /><br />In VA you cannot get a restraining order which is actually a PPO (Personal Protection Order) unless you are related, lived with the person, have children with them, or they have threatened physical harm to you.<br /><br />No worries, I haven't been in the martial arts for 17 years for kicks and giggles.. and my friends and the police are close in case I need help.<br /><br />Thanks for your comment :)Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12991116408907161409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3787131990396798748.post-19972587528864732902009-05-29T14:07:55.929-04:002009-05-29T14:07:55.929-04:00Umm... restraining order?
I've recently found m...Umm... restraining order? <br /><br />I've recently found myself on the opposite side of a similar situation. There was a girl that I liked very much, and she liked me back as well. I won't go as far as to say we were in love, because the one time she told me she loved me was the last time I ever heard from her. She said "I love you, see you tomorrow" and then I never heard from her again. <br /><br />I've been searching off and on since she vanished two years ago. Since moving out here by myself in va beach I've gotten a little stir crazy and decided that I would look a little harder. I did all sorts of crazy internet searches and found someone who fit her description almost perfectly. I desperately needed closure more than anything. I wanted to know she was alive and safe, and I wanted to know if I somehow turned her off or drove her away or what. I'm tired of being obsessed with someone who I'll probably never see again, and I want to be free from that obsession. When I found this person who so perfectly fit her description though, I was terrified. <br /><br />I can't explain it. It's like there was a good chance I already had all the answers I was so desperately seeking, and if I went any further, then I would be betraying my own motives, becoming something I didn't want to be. So instead of contacting her, I did some research and found it wasn't who I was looking for after all, but I think I'm still one step closer to closure. Unless by some miracle she returns to me on her own, all the searching in the world won't do me any good, and could possibly cause her harm and panic, which is the last thing I would ever want for her. <br /><br />Anyway, I got sidetracked big time. What I was trying to get at is it was the uncertainty factor that kept me going. If she had said she wasn't interested at some point (she was VERY interested until she vanished), then I would not have pursued to such lengths. <br /><br />In the past, I've had similar obsessions with other girls that I most definitely did pursue too far. While this was completely my fault and I don't want to blame anyone else in any way, all they needed to do was to firmly make their wishes and boundaries known, and then I would not have gotten so emotionally invested in them.<br /><br />Unfortunately men are often brainwashed by television and media to believe that women are capable of romance, but in real life, the things that are on the movie screen as romance come across more stalkerish when the violin isn't playing in the background. (Leaving notes where a girl would find them, secret admirers, writing letters, emails, or even trying to hold their gaze across a crowded room)Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08093256392122325344noreply@blogger.com